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Finding Faith in Humanity: How to Stay Positive Amid a World of Criticism, Judgment, and Cancel Culture
Ramsay Banna
In today’s fast-paced, hyperconnected world, it can often feel as though negativity is the prevailing force. Criticism, judgment, cancel culture, and social media outrage seem to dominate conversations, leaving many people questioning how to stay positive and hold on to faith in humanity. What happened to old-fashioned trust, love, forgiveness, and thinking positively of others? How do we maintain these values in an environment where people seem quick to attack, judge, and tear each other down?
This article will explore how one can cultivate a positive mindset, nurture faith in people, and practice forgiveness, even when the world seems rife with negativity. It will examine the reasons behind today’s culture of criticism, and most importantly, provide guidance on how to rise above it and find a deeper connection to humanity.
Understanding the Culture of Criticism and Judgment
Before we can talk about staying positive, it's important to understand why the world feels more critical and divided today. There are several factors contributing to this environment:
Social Media Amplification: Social media has made it easier than ever for people to voice their opinions, often without accountability. The anonymity and distance it provides can foster an atmosphere where harsh words and judgment flow freely. The speed at which information spreads on these platforms can also escalate conflicts quickly.
Cancel Culture: Cancel culture, where individuals or groups are boycotted or ostracized for their actions or opinions, has emerged as a prominent force. While it can serve as a way to hold people accountable, it has often been misused, creating an environment where people are afraid to make mistakes or speak their minds. Instead of fostering growth and understanding, it can lead to fear, resentment, and divisiveness.
Fear and Insecurity: Criticism often stems from fear or insecurity. People are afraid of being vulnerable or open to differences, so they protect themselves by judging or attacking others. This can create a cycle of negativity where people are more focused on tearing others down than building meaningful connections.
The Pressure for Perfection: Society places immense pressure on people to appear perfect—whether in their careers, social lives, or personal beliefs. The reality is that none of us are perfect. The fear of not meeting these standards can lead people to judge others as a way of deflecting attention from their own perceived shortcomings.
Despite these challenges, it is possible to rise above and maintain a positive outlook. Here’s how.
1. Recognize the Humanity in Others
One of the most important steps in staying positive is to recognize the humanity in others. Every person you encounter is carrying their own burdens, insecurities, and struggles. When we acknowledge that people are not perfect—just as we are not perfect—it becomes easier to approach them with compassion instead of judgment.
Instead of jumping to conclusions or joining in the chorus of criticism, try to understand the person behind the words or actions. What might they be going through that you cannot see? Practicing empathy can dissolve anger and bring about a sense of shared humanity.
2. Cultivate Forgiveness and Let Go of Grudges
Forgiveness is a powerful tool for staying positive. Holding onto resentment or anger can be incredibly draining and will inevitably chip away at your ability to see the good in others. Learning to forgive—whether it’s a small slight or a larger betrayal—frees you from the grip of negativity.
It’s important to remember that forgiveness does not mean condoning hurtful behavior. Instead, it’s about choosing to release the emotional weight that comes with holding onto past grievances. It allows you to move forward with a lighter heart and maintain your faith in people.
3. Trust in the Goodness of Others
Trust can feel like a fragile concept in a world where people seem quick to betray or harm one another. However, trust is also a fundamental part of building meaningful relationships and living a positive life. While it may seem risky, placing trust in others can open the door to connection, love, and kindness.
Of course, trust should not be given blindly. It’s important to recognize who has earned your trust through consistent actions and who may not deserve it. But overall, approaching people with a mindset of trust instead of suspicion fosters an environment where positivity and connection can thrive.
4. Shift Your Focus from Judgment to Understanding
It’s easy to fall into the trap of judgment, especially when faced with opinions or actions that conflict with your own. But judgment rarely leads to resolution or connection. Instead, it creates division.
The next time you find yourself judging someone, pause and reflect. What is it about their behavior that triggers this reaction in you? Is there a deeper fear or insecurity behind your judgment? Shifting your focus from judgment to understanding can help break the cycle of negativity. Ask questions, listen to different perspectives, and be open to the idea that people have reasons for their behavior that you may not immediately see.
5. Limit Your Exposure to Negative Influences
In a world filled with constant streams of news, social media, and commentary, it’s important to be mindful of what you consume. Regular exposure to negativity—whether it’s in the form of angry social media posts, sensationalized news, or toxic conversations—can take a toll on your mental and emotional well-being.
Set boundaries for yourself when it comes to engaging with negative influences. This might mean taking breaks from social media, surrounding yourself with positive and uplifting people, or finding news sources that focus on balanced reporting. Curating your environment to support positivity will help you maintain a more optimistic outlook.
6. Lead by Example
In a world of criticism, judgment, and negativity, one of the most powerful ways to stay positive is to lead by example. Choose kindness over cruelty. Speak with empathy instead of condemnation. When others around you see this behavior, it can have a ripple effect, inspiring them to follow suit.
By embodying the values of trust, forgiveness, and love, you show others that there is another way—a better way. While you may not be able to change the whole world, you can influence the people and environments around you.
7. Nurture Positivity in Your Own Mind
Finally, staying positive begins with your own mindset. If you’re constantly criticizing yourself, doubting your worth, or focusing on your shortcomings, it becomes much harder to think positively about others.
Make a conscious effort to practice self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a close friend. The more positive and forgiving you are toward yourself, the easier it becomes to extend that same grace to others.
The Return to Trust, Humanity, and Love
It’s easy to feel disheartened in a world where negativity seems to reign. But the truth is that trust, humanity, love, and forgiveness still exist—they just need to be nurtured and rediscovered in the noise of modern life.
By choosing to approach people with empathy, letting go of grudges, placing trust in others, and leading with kindness, you can help restore a sense of humanity in your own life and the lives of those around you. It may not be easy, and it may require conscious effort, but the reward is a life filled with deeper connections, peace of mind, and the ability to see the good in people even when it feels hidden.
In the end, positivity isn’t about ignoring the flaws in the world—it’s about choosing to see the potential for goodness and growth. And by doing so, you can help bring back the old-fashioned values of trust, love, and forgiveness, one person at a time.
Ramsay Banna
Saturday, September 21, 2024
Sunday, September 8, 2024
Sun Tzu’s “Art of War” Principles and How to Apply Them to Everyday Life Challenges
Ramsay Banna Explores the principles and they usage in everyday life situations
Sun Tzu, a legendary Chinese military strategist, wrote *The Art of War* over 2,000 years ago. Despite its age, the wisdom within its pages remains highly relevant, not only for war but for daily life.
His key principles are universal and adaptable to tackling personal challenges, work dilemmas, and even complex life decisions. Let’s explore Sun Tzu’s core teachings and how they can help us conquer daily obstacles.
Know Yourself and Your Enemy
Sun Tzu said, “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”
Application: Self-awareness is key to solving personal problems. Whether it’s work-related stress, family conflicts, or life decisions, knowing your strengths and weaknesses helps you prepare better. At the same time, understanding the “enemy”—which could be the problem itself, a tough situation, or competition—allows you to tailor your approach effectively. If you lack insight into the challenges you face or your capabilities, you risk making poor decisions.
Plan Ahead but Stay Flexible
Another famous Sun Tzu principle is, “In the midst of chaos, there is also opportunity.” He believed in being prepared but also in adjusting to new circumstances.
Application: Life rarely follows a straight line. Plans get derailed, unexpected obstacles pop up, and priorities shift. Sun Tzu’s advice teaches us to anticipate challenges but remain adaptable. A rigid approach often leads to frustration and failure, but staying flexible enables you to turn challenges into opportunities.
Choose Your Battles Wisely
Sun Tzu wrote, “He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.”
Application: Not all conflicts are worth your time and energy.
This applies to personal arguments, career challenges, and life’s little setbacks. Ask yourself: Is this issue worth fighting for, or is it a distraction from my larger goals? Choosing your battles wisely can prevent unnecessary stress and wasted effort.
Leverage Strengths
“If he sends reinforcements everywhere, he will everywhere be weak,” Sun Tzu warns, emphasizing the importance of concentrating your resources.
Application: Focusing your energy on what you’re good at while managing weaknesses is key. In work, this might mean playing to your strengths in leadership, organization, or creativity while delegating tasks where you lack expertise. In personal life, this could be focusing on relationships that nourish you rather than draining your energy in toxic dynamics.
Secrecy as a Strategy
Sun Tzu often stresses the element of surprise and deception, saying, “All warfare is based on deception.”
Application: This doesn’t mean being dishonest in daily life but rather managing perceptions and expectations to your advantage. In a job interview, for instance, you might strategically highlight certain skills or experiences based on the role. In negotiations, withholding your full position until the right moment can give you an edge.
Adapt to CircumstancesSun Tzu also said, “Water shapes its course according to the nature of the ground over which it flows; the soldier works out his victory in relation to the foe whom he is facing.”
Application: Like water, adaptability is crucial in life. When life throws unexpected changes your way—whether a sudden job loss or a personal challenge—those who adapt rather than resist often come out stronger. Embracing change and finding new pathways is a vital skill for overcoming life’s problems.
Position Yourself for Success
“The good fighters of old first put themselves beyond the possibility of defeat, and then waited for an opportunity of defeating the enemy,” Sun Tzu said.
Application: In personal and professional life, positioning yourself well is half the battle. This could mean building strong relationships, saving for a rainy day, or honing your skills. Once you’ve built a solid foundation, you’re in a position to act confidently when opportunities arise.
Know When to Retreat
Sun Tzu wisely said, “He who knows when he can fight and when he cannot will be victorious.”
Application: In everyday life, there’s no shame in stepping back when necessary. Whether it’s disengaging from an unproductive argument, switching career paths, or postponing a decision, knowing when to retreat allows you to regroup and avoid bigger mistakes down the line.
Control Emotions
Sun Tzu understood the danger of acting out of anger or impulse, stating, “If your opponent is of choleric temper, seek to irritate him.”
Application: Emotional intelligence plays a huge role in how you tackle problems. If you let your emotions dictate your actions—whether in frustration, anger, or stress—you are more likely to make impulsive and harmful decisions. Instead, keep a calm head and rationally assess each situation.
Master Timing
Lastly, Sun Tzu reminds us that timing is crucial: “Opportunities multiply as they are seized.”
Application: Timing plays a critical role in success. Sometimes, it’s about knowing when to act quickly, and other times it’s about waiting for the right moment. In life, this could mean choosing the right time to launch a business, make a significant career move, or address a relationship issue. Striking at the right moment maximizes the chances of a positive outcome.
Ramsay Banna’s Final Thoughts
Sun Tzu’s strategies for war go beyond the battlefield. They offer wisdom in self-awareness, adaptability, focus, and emotional control—skills essential for conquering daily challenges. By applying his timeless principles, we can navigate the complexities of modern life with more confidence and poise, achieving victories both large and small. Whether in personal growth, career advancement, or relationships, these strategies help us tackle life’s problems with the precision and foresight of a skilled general.
For more information, please contact Ramsay Banna
Monday, July 1, 2024
Setting my new record by Ramsay Banna
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am not a morning
person, so I start at 7am, which to a purist might sound like a good reason to
cancel the trek that day.
The first 4-5 hours are a gruelling uphill made worse by the
lack of trees for most of the stretch and the occasional skull (animal's, I
hope) – reminding me how thirsty I am and how stupid it was to assume there
would be water on the way. At around
1800m altitude, I reach the top of the ridge and get a rewarding view of the
alpine ridge of Stara Planina. What
follows is the most enjoyable part of the trek, getting in and out of forests,
crossing springs (water, finally!), alternating easy climbs and descents and
taking in the amazing views in each direction.
You get peeks of the summit every now and then too - Botev is easily recognised by the striped red and white radio tower perched on top of it. Together with the weather station, it has been home to scientists for close to 6 decades. I am a bit put off by the fact that what I consider a great adventure is seen as a commute by many of them.
The arrival at the Botev Refuge marks a change in pace, and
slope incline, unfortunately. It sits
300m below the summit and this final ascent is an absolute trudge. The path is eroded by melting snow each year
and if you look up you risk stepping on an unstable rock and breaking an
ankle. Not that there is anything to
look at – on the way up that is. A
massive hill, nothing to break the monotony - not a single tree - and a tower marking
the final destination which looks deceptively close and makes that last hour
torture.
Once at the top, I am rewarded with amazing views in every
direction. The mountain stretches east
and west and cuts the country in half – if you look north, you can see the
great Danube river on a clear day. To
the south, the Aegean sea – or so they say… Its either not a clear day or my
eyesight has taken a hit after all these years of studying.
But you don't need to look that far because the range of
summits east and west, lining up the ridge, are simply spectacular.
I am acutely aware that this is the halfway point of my trek and that most accidents happen on the way down. And that I am so tired I can just lie down and fall asleep, right there between the grazing cattle with cow dung looking like a really attractive pillow at that moment.
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n the way down I appreciate the views I didn't get a chance to see while I was dragging myself uphill, so I stop for a late lunch and take it all in. The valley between the mountains is glittering with numerous lakes. A helicopter is doing rounds from one of the lakes to a nearby forest which has caught fire, an unfortunate common sight in the summer. It looks like a little bug, hovering over the water and dipping its bucket then zooming towards the smoke to dump it on top. From this altitude you only see beauty. None of the abandoned concrete ruins which pollute the small villages, remnants of 40 yrs of building a doomed political system and unattractive skyline.
A shuffle next to me brings me back to the here and now. I turn and face a muzzle. I freeze, mind going blank. In preparation for the hike, I spent some time reading what manner of wildlife I could expect to meet on the mountain and every article warning about the big brown bear (while making a point to mention it is docile in comparison to the world-famous Bulgarian sheepdog). I find myself wishing it is the bear, but that's distinctly a dog's muzzle I am staring at.
I go through my options and come up with a list of one. Stay still and hope the dog thinks I am an
inanimate object. Luckily it takes only
a minute for the shepherd to appear because I can't trust my shaky muscles to
keep the mannequin illusion. He calls to
his dog (it is a she, if gender is still observed in dog world and she has a
sweet, albeit almost extinct name 'Todorka' – the Slavic equivalent of Dorothea,
a reversed-syllable Theodora). Dorothea bounds in his direction happily but my
relief is short-lived because she decides to inflict more terror on me and is
back breathing in my neck.
What makes Karakachans such good sheep-guarding dogs is how
smart they are and the training they go through. Used in the past as border army watchdogs,
they get trained to mistrust humans and keep them frozen in place until the
arrival of the men in charge, usually carrying big guns. Dorothea's owner, it seems, is either from
the anti-gun, we-are-all-brothers lobby, or the world's worst dog trainer
because Dorothea might look like a Karakachan but identifies as a Pomeranian.
After an inhibited display of joy át getting to know me and appreciation for
half of my sandwich, we part ways with Dorothea and I continue on my way down.
As correctly expected, the worst part of the entire trek is
the last descent, the one that I hated on the way up and loath even more on the
way down. I think I am seeing a lot more
skulls but by then I might be hallucinating.
It's a relentless downhill and no attempt to ease the burn in my muscles
by running fast, flapping my arms or walking backwards, skater style, makes the
slightest difference.
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hours after starting the trek I arrive back to what I expect to be a hero's welcome. Most sources put this as anything between 11 and 15 hours trek and I have done it in 9, breaks included. What I am met with instead is the stony silence and hostile faces of my fellow travellers. Much later, when I have been forgiven, I learn that I omitted to tell them my destination when discussing my plan for the day. A hike, it seems, is not what they would call a 33km round trek. But that's a few days later. Tonight I just wash the dishes in the hope that this is accepted as sufficient repentance for my sins.
I’d love to hear your stories of (not carefully thought
through) one day challenges!
Please contact Ramsay Banna
July 2017
Sunday, June 30, 2024
Ramsay Banna’s take on Indoor Rock Climbing
Coping with
being cooped up during winter months. Introduction
to Indoor Rock Climbing for Beginners
A few years ago I spent the winter
cooped up in a house and suffering cabin fever.
With the weather trying to make up its mind between snowing and raining,
there was little to do in the way of staying active. So it was quite a relief to discover an
indoor rock climbing center near where I lived.
Indoor rock climbing is a thrilling and challenging activity perfect for
when the weather closes in. It involves climbing artificial walls that simulate
the experience of outdoor rock climbing, but in a controlled and safe environment.
Before starting, it is essential to understand the basics of indoor rock
climbing, including the equipment required and the different types of climbing.
Typical indoor climbing gear includes climbing shoes, a harness (for rope
climbing), and a chalk bag. Indoor climbing gyms usually have rental equipment
available for beginners who do not have their gear.
Preparing for your first climb is crucial to ensure a safe and enjoyable
experience. It is recommended to start with a beginner's course or climb with
an experienced friend who can teach you the basic techniques. Before you start
climbing, it's essential to warm up your muscles and stretch your body.
Climbing with cold muscles can lead to injuries. Wear comfortable clothes that
allow you to move freely and use chalk to keep your hands dry and improve your
grip. You should also learn how to control your jumps and fall onto your back
if needed.
As a beginner, it's important to focus on developing proper technique
and building strength gradually. Climbing with your feet and keeping your
weight on your legs is crucial to conserve energy and prevent fatigue. It is
also recommended to climb no more than three times a week to avoid overexertion
and allow your muscles to recover. Investing in good quality climbing gear,
getting an instructor, finding a climbing partner, and getting a basic
understanding of climbing grades can also help improve your skills. Following
these tips and techniques can help beginners improve their climbing skills and
enjoy the sport safely and effectively.
1. Gather the necessary equipment: Climbing harness, climbing shoes, chalk
bag, and belay device.
2. Find a suitable location for climbing. Look for an indoor rock climbing
gym or climbing wall.
3. Learn the basics of climbing safety and technique. If you are new to rock
climbing, it is important to take a class or get instruction from a certified
instructor.
4. Begin climbing! Start with easier routes and work your way up to more
difficult ones.
5. Practice proper belaying techniques. Make sure you and your partner are
always using the correct safety techniques and belay devices when climbing.
6. Have fun and stay safe! Enjoy the challenge and the amazing sense of
accomplishment that comes with conquering a route.
For more information please contact Ramsay Banna
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